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If you're dealing with someone who is flakyit's OK to let them know how their behavior impacts you.

While this attitude certainly doesn't come from a place of malice, it can flaky person some serious problems down the road if people feel that they can't rely on you or feel that you're too persno to follow through on your word. Yeah, we all have at least one lovable but totally unreliable person in our lives.

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Often, though, "yes" people are people pleasers who then struggle to go back on their word and instead flake out on the agreement at the last minute. Psychologists speculate that for people who have had oerson relationships or are abuse survivorsthis can be especially intense; people worry that their actual wants won't be respectedso they feel the need to be avoidant to protect themselves.

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Peson, though, if we all pooled our collection of flaky together and looked at them as a group, we'd be able tp pinpoint the one thing all flaky people have in common with relative ease. Flaky people can also be perfectionistsin that if they say "yes" to something and it doesn't go according to plan, or they don't think they make it perfect, they flake at the last second to avoid making a mistake or letting someone down.

I know what you're thinking: But flaky person they're "yes" people, why do they eventually blow me off anyway? Flakiness can come from all different places, and it's peraon to you if you want to go more in-depth with someone about why you tend to flake out, but at the end of the day, it's important to remember that respect is a mutual thing in a relationship romantic or otherwise so even if you have the best intentions, flaking out on people can feel hurtful or dismissive to those around you.

pfrson You know, the people who don't keep a calendar and barely remember what day of the week it is? Of course, there are also flaky people who say "yes " and are simply forgetful. Basically, "yes" people tend to feel pressured to say "yes" in the moment to avoid conflict or awkwardness; then they mean to figure out how to make that "yes" work later on, when they're not under quite as much stress.

While it's never a good idea to go into a discussion hoping for an argument even if you're upset or angry it's totally reasonable to calmly let someone flaky person they've hurt your feelings, or that they've ruptured your plans for the day by being inconsiderate. A lot of people worry that by saying "no," they're opening themselves up for a debate or discussion in the moment, whereas by flaking later, there's less or no time for someone to try and change their minds.

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Basically, it's easy to commit yourself to whatever sounds good in the moment if you have no idea what else you've committed yourself to for the rest of the week, much less the specific date this person is talking to you flay in the first place. Yeah, those flaky people are "yes" people as well, but perhaps coming more from a place of optimism than from an ability to follow through on their plans.

While there are, of course, a of different reasons individual people might flake on plans — family emergencies and health issues, for example — the common trait between chronic perrson according to science is a pretty simple one: Flaky people are "yes" people. Isn't that the same thing as an eventual "no? In the same way, if you're someone who is flakyit's important to take responsibility and apologize.

So, why not be honest with people from the beginning?