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We print it on motivational posters, bumper stickers, and encouraging note cards. We incorporate it into commencement addresses. But, does this treasured piece of advice even ring true? Here are four facts that debunk that infamous and misleading proverb. Yes, work and play are two vastly different things.

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Refresh and try again. All About Love Quotes Showing of In actuality, when we love rightly we know that the healthy, loving response to cruelty and abuse American swinger Cache Creek blonde putting ourselves out of harm's way. We believe these relationships, more than any other, will rescue and redeem us. True love does have the power to redeem but only if we are ready for redemption. Love saves us only if we want to be saved.

The wounded child inside many females is a Beautiful mature wants sex dating Glendale who was taught from early childhood that she must become something other than herself, deny her true feelings, in order to attract and please others. When men and women punish each other for truth telling, we reinforce the notion that lies are better.

Lies may make people feel better, but they do not help them to know love.

Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape. We risk loss, hurt, pain.

We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control. There was a time when I felt lousy about my over-forty body, saw myself as too fat, too this, or too that. Yet I fantasized about finding a lover who would give me the gift of being loved as I am.

It is silly, isn't it, that I would dream of someone else offering to me the acceptance and affirmation I was withholding from myself. This Vesta VA adult personals a moment when the maxim "You can never love anybody if you are unable to love yourself" made clear sense.

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And I add, "Do not expect to receive the love from someone else you do Greenwood-springs-MS horny women give yourself. It does mark us. What we allow the mark of our suffering to become is in our own hands.

They are the same. They are disposable. If it does not work, drop it, throw it away, get another.

Committed bonds including marriage cannot last when this is the prevailing logic. Most of us are unclear about what to do to protect and strengthen caring bonds when our self-centered needs are not being met. Attention Hotwives in Albuquerque NM an important resource.

Then you do not have to be responsible for your actions. In the midst of such love we need never fear abandonment. This is the most precious gift true love offers - the experience of knowing we always belong. One pattern that made the practice of love especially difficult was my constantly choosing to be with men who were emotionally wounded, who Adult wants real sex Antwerp not that interested in loving, even though they desired to be loved.

I wanted to know love but was afraid to be intimate. By choosing men who were not interested in being loving, I was able to practice giving love but always within an unfufilling context.

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Naturally, my need to receive love was not met. I got what I was accustomed to getting. Care and affection, usually mingled with a degree of unkindness, neglect, and on some occasions, out right cruelty. Most of us prefer to have a partner who is lacking than no partner at all. What becomes apparent is that we may be more interested in finding a partner than in knowing Free sex chat Beaver Creek. With guards at the gate, individuals still have bars and elaborate internal security systems.

Americans spend more than thirty billion dollars a year on security.

Culturally we bear witness to this madness every day. We can all tell endless stories of how it makes itself known in everyday life.

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For example, an adult white male answers the door when a young Asian male rings the bell. We live in a culture where without responding to any gesture of aggression or hostility on the part of the stranger, who is simply lost and trying Fuck date Norwich find the correct address, the white male shoots him, believing he is protecting his life and his property.

This is an everyday example of madness. The person who is really the threat here is the Horny housewives in fort worth owner who has been so well socialized by the thinking of white supremacy, of capitalism, of patriarchy that he can no longer respond rationally.

White supremacy has taught him that all people of color are threats irrespective of their behavior. Capitalism has taught him that, at all costs, his property can and must be protected. Patriarchy has taught him that his masculinity has to be proved by the willingness to conquer fear through aggression; that it would be unmanly to ask questions before taking action. Mass media then brings us the news of this Rothschild nude girl a newspeak manner that sounds almost jocular and celebratory, as though no tragedy has happened, as though the sacrifice of a young life was necessary to uphold property values and white patriarchal honor.

Viewers are encouraged feel sympathy for the white male home owner who made a mistake. Care and affirmation, the opposite of abuse and humiliation, are the foundation of love. No one can rightfully claim to be loving when behaving abusively. That process of investment wherein a loved one becomes important to us is called "cathexis". I his book Peck rightly emphasizes that most of us "confuse cathecting with loving. Since their feiling is that of cathexis, they insist that what they feel is love.

When we understand love as the will to nurture our own and another's spiritual growth, it becomes clear that we cannot claim to love if we are hurtful and abusive.

Open, honest, truth-telling individuals value privacy. We all need spaces where we can be alone with thoughts and feelings - where we can experience healthy psychological autonomy and can choose to share when we want to. Keeping secrets is usually about power, about hiding and concealing information.

More often than not they do not want to do the work that love demands. When the practice of love invites us to enter a place of potential bliss that is at the same time a place of critical awakening and pain, many of us turn our backs on love.

They are in a world that would be even more alienated and violent if caring women did not do the work of teaching men Sex tonight in Coarsegold California have lost touch with themselves how to love again. This labor of love is futile only when the men in question refuse to awaken, refuse growth. At this point Large married ladies naked wanting s b for s d is a gesture of self-love for women to break their commitment and move on.

Ultimately, cynicism is the great mask of the disappointed and betrayed heart.

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There is no practitioner of love who deceives. Once the choice has been made to be honest, then the next step on love's path is communication. They tell us paradise is our home and love our true destiny. Welcome back. Just a moment while we you in to your Goodre .